The Fine Art of Erotic Talk : How To Entice, Excite, And Enchant Your Lover With Words
Explore the Passionate Power of Words
A whispered term of endearment, a flirtatious phrase, a secret suggestion, a cry of passion--words can be the most intimate gift that lovers share. This guide to their sensual power invites us to explore the erotic potential in verbal communication, as sexuality counselor and seminar leader Bonnie Gabriel shows how words can arouse desire, reveal and fulfill fantasies, and infuse lovemaking with romance and fire.
Based on Gabriel's popular workshops, this frankly provocative and warmly encouraging book is designed for both singles and couples: to help singles navigate the the shoals of attraction, budding intimacy, and safe sex; and to inspire couples to chrage longtime romances with new creative expressions of love and ardor through explicit examples, sample fantasy scripts, "naughty" games, and techniques for nurturing and sexual healing. And for those who feel too shy or fearful to express passions and yearnings, Gabriel offers guidance, support, and inspiration to help them give full voice to their desires.
Discover how words can deepen intimacy, heighten sensuality, intensify eroticism, and fulfill your every fantasy when you master The Fine Art of Erotic Talk.
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January 01, 1996
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Excerpt from The Fine Art of Erotic Talk by Bonnie Gabriel
1 EROTIC TALK: The Magic of Making Love with Words ". . . with sweetness through mine ear, Dissolve me into ecstasies" John Milton Words are wonderful aphrodisiacs! With words, you can stimulate the pleasure centers in your partner's mind so they send shivers of sensual delight through his entire body. With words, you can help her become more relaxed and receptive to your touch. With words, you can ignite his erotic imagination or lift her to the heights of unbridled passion. And with words, you can melt the barriers that may be keeping you and your lover from experiencing the profound joy of a sacred sexual union. Until very recently, most "experts" on the art of making love have ignored, underplayed or underestimated the importance of words and verbal communication in creating a fulfilling sex life. Books abound on physical techniques for stimulating your lover, positions for experiencing increased passion and methods for extending the duration of your orgasms. Other works explain how to communicate with your partner about the difficulties and frustrations you are having in your sexual relationship. But where are the instructional guides that show you how to use the language of love to arouse, delight and nourish your partner and bring enriching new dimensions to your sex lives? Why has the physical act of making love been given so much more attention than the verbal? The truth is that writers of sex manuals find it easier to focus on improving sexual performance than on expressing erotic feelings for the same reasons that many lovers find it easier to make love silently than to put their sensual experiences into words. You see, sexual bonding, whether we're writing about it or experiencing it directly, opens us to our deepest longings for connection, to the awareness that we are truly interdependent and therefore vulnerable to each other. Words make tangible the unspoken ache in our bodies and yearning in our hearts. When you tell your lover "I need your touch" or "I want you so much," you are allowing yourself to be emotionally exposed. This exposure gives your partner the power to hurt you, which we all fear, but it also is the basis for true intimacy, and profound connection with another human being. Words can become a bridge across which the loving energy in your body, heart and soul can travel. They can become the keys that can unlock the hidden delights of your secret sexual fantasies. Your words and the sound of your voice can become the rhythms that accompany your sexual dance and help your passionate connection to thrive when you are apart. Through the language of love, you can reveal the many delicious dimensions of your physical, mental, emotional and spiritual loving. REDEFINING EROTIC TALK Many people think of "erotic talk" as being synonymous with "talking dirty." Certainly, well-timed explicit sexual conversation can be a wonderful way of celebrating the sheer joy of intimate connection. It can add an earthy, lusty element to lovemaking and convey to your partner the intensity of your physical passion. It is one aspect of what I've termed the "fine art" of erotic talk. But erotic talk is also a form of communication you can use in those moments when the quality of your desire is more delicate or playful or tender, or when you're feeling a deep appreciation for the pleasure your mate is bringing into your life. It can be an imaginative medium that lets you share a sexy fantasy or create dialogue for its enactment with your lover. It can convey your awe of the depth of emotional or spiritual connection that you share with your lover. When you begin to notice the subtlety and variety of mood states that interplay with your sheer physical desire, emotions that sometimes yearn for verbal expression even more than simple graphic accounts of your lus